It's completely impossible to find a girl that won't hurt me. So I'll instead go for the girl who will make the pain worthwhile

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

9/22/2009 12:50:00 AM

Chalet photo! lol. nice candy floss..

Had k-boxing on sunday 20th sep with ms liu, hui miao, amanda, liyun and e rest, had lots of fun, sang till like 6am.. To like pre-celebrate Jiuyuan's birthday which is on the 21st sep. HAHA and and, huimiao and amanda sings damn nice too. hahaha!

21st sep, We went to mind's cafe. Coz the birthday boy wants to go there. We ate and play boardgames over there, Hell they had like sooo many games, We had lots of fun, esp when we play the dog and bone. Everybody started to snatch the bone luh! LOL!

Went drinking yesterday too, and look at what happened to james. LOL

Pussy boy! reach home alrd, dont even want to go into his own house, half of his body in e house, e other half outside. HAHA.

Went to office to settle stuff for the team today, then headed to city hall to meet Jiuyuan and friends. Went to watch movie, the cartoon called 9. Not too bad, interesting. HAHA

Was still thinking of what Mr kit shared to me recently. Err.. he gave an example of like, a bf gf in a r/s.

He said let's say there's this girl, she found boyfriend A, so she liked him, and be together with him. But at e end of the day, she broke up with him, hurting him, coz she felt he was like too good boy, being together with him there's no fun. She wants excitement so she broke off with him and look for another one.

When she found boyfriend B, she loved him. And she be together with him, for a period of time later, she broke up with him, though he's nice, but she claimed he's too vulglar, doesn't care much about her, so she broke up with him, hurting him, and went on to look for another guy.

When she found boyfriend C, she loved him, she got together with him, but after a period of time, she broke up with him again. And she said he was too obedient, like a mummy's boy. Whatever his mum said, he'll follow and she doesn't like it, and she left him, hurting the 3rd guy.

Mr kit's moral of this story is, actually the problem doesn't lie with the guys. Breaking up with boyfriend A, B and C, is because she doesn't want to face and handle things, and she prefer to run away from problems and lead her life instead of solving it. In the end, she found no happiness. And she never ever will. Cause the problem doesn't lie with the guys, it lies within herself. Cause by running away, she didn't learn how to solve it, so the same problem will just keep coming back, and back. Isn't it? Even if she carries on to look for boyfriend D, E or F, the same problem will keep coming back again and again. And I felt it's true. Isn't what couples are facing this in relationships? And led to quarrels and break-ups. And I realised when someone faces a problem, they don't blame themselves, they like to say it's not me, it's him/her. Pushing the blame I guess? Even for myself, I think I'm like that too, aww. will change. =/
(And I feel, having another friend, it's definitely better than having another enemy right?) Correct me if I'm wrong. =)

And I quote myself a moral too, at the end of the day, no one is perfect. But when a person is willing to change for the better, he will still, not be perfect, but flaws will be reduced to the minimum, which I felt he's definitely perfect, for the girl that will be willing to love him.

Pretty isn't it huh?

I folded it myself. Using clip paper. Took a damn long time to learn it for her I guess..

<3

I should deserve more than what I deserve.

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